Main Office: 732.780.2666
Mon - Fri 9am - 5pm
Summer 8am - 4pm
RE Office: 732.294-8841
To reach a priest in an emergency,
please call 732.780.7343 x5
Options for the Rite of Burial:
All registered parishioners and their family members are welcome to be buried from St. Mary's with a funeral Mass in Church. If the deceased did not attend Mass regularly, it would be more appropriate for a Funeral Service (led by St. Mary's Clergy) to be held at the Funeral Home.
Non-registered Catholics who live within the territorial boundaries of St. Mary's are also eligible to be buried from St. Mary's. However, if the deceased did not attend Mass regularly, we would encourage the family to arrange for a Funeral Service (led by St. Mary's Clergy) at the Funeral Home (instead of a Mass at Church).
The Rite of Christian Burial will be provided for any other Catholic Christian in the form of a Funeral Service at the Funeral Home, if the Parish Clergy are able to accommodate the request.
All Funeral Masses are celebrated at 9 am in order to provide the opportunity for the Parish Community to gather in prayer and support for the grieving family.
Wakes at St. Mary's Church are limited to one night of viewing from 7-9pm. There are to be no viewing hours in the morning before the Funeral Mass. If a Wake is held in the Church, the body must be taken back to the Funeral Home at the conclusion.
The requested donation for the Church is $200 (unless it would create a hardship on the family). Also, there is a requested donation of $150 for the Music Ministry. The check can be made out to the person performing these duties on the morning of the liturgy. These can be included with the Clergy Record and presented to the Priest or a member of the Lazarus Ministry.
The Funeral Director's staff will personally contact the Pastor or the Parish Office Staff to confirm the date and time of all arrangements. Members of the Lazarus Ministry will coordinate all other liturgical arrangements with the family, the Funeral Director, and the Clergy.
Wakes may be held at the Funeral Home or at St. Mary's Church.
If at St. Marys:
Wake Service (Vigil)
Members of the Lazarus Ministry will conduct all Wake Services, whether at the Funeral Home or the Church. The Lazarus Coordinator will contact the Funeral Home Staff to determine the time of the Wake Service. St. Mary's provides the Wake Service materials as needed.
Note: All eulogies, personal reflections, poetry, etc. may be delivered only during the wake service (not during the funeral liturgy).
Equipment provided by the Funeral Director for Wake at Church:
Funeral Eucharist (Mass)
Note: Please remember that our Funeral Eucharist must begin on time since other members of our Community are present for our regularly scheduled 9am Mass.